Dua'a for getting
married
MATRIMONIAL AFFAIRS (i) PROPOSAL OF MARRIAGE
Inspite of growing up to the age of sexual maturity, if a boy
or a girl has not received a suitable offer of marriage, recite surah al Ajzab
(chapter 33) regularly. Inshallah, soon he or she will be married.
If a gown up girl is not received any offer of marriage recite
surah al Mumtahinah (chapter 60) five times daily, Inshallah, soon she will be
married.
If a grown up girl is not receiving any offer of marriage
recite surah at Taha (chapter 20) and blow breath on a glass of water and let
the girl drink it. Inshallah, soon she will be married.
If a grown up girl is not receiving an offer of marriage,
recite verse 36 of Yasin 100 times before salat of tehajjud for 40 days,
inshallah soon she will be married.
SUBH'AANALLAD'EE KHALAQAL AZWAAJA KULLAHAA MIMMAA TUMBITUL
ARZ'U WA MIN ANFUSIHIM WA MIMMAA LAA YA'LAMOON
It is written in Biharul Anwar that to invoke the almighty
Allah that a grown up boy or a girl be suitably married carry out the following
a'mal of du-a'a of Mashlul
(i) Recite du-a'a al Mashlul (see selected Soorahas and Du-a'as
volume one and two) preferably after Fajr salat or any obligatory salat for 40
consecutive days.
(ii) Do not eat animal flesh
(iii) Always remain the state of Ablution
(iv) Wear Ihram dress at the time of reciting the du-a'a
To invoke the almighty Allah that a grown up boy or a girl be
suitably married, recite the following du-a'a after giving gifts to the
deserving mumin brothers or sisters.
YAA MUSABBIBAL ASBAABI YAA MUFTTIH 'AL ABWAABI YAA MAN H'AYTHU
MAA DU-I'YA AJAABA
According to Biharul Anwar to invoke the almighty Allah that a
grown up boy or girl be suitably married recite the following du-a'a 100 times
daily for 40 consecutive days after any obligatory salat.
SAHLAM BIFAZ "LIKA YAA A'ZEEZ
It is written in Bihar al Anwar that if a grown up girl is not
receiving any offer of marriage, her father should pray a 2 rak-at salat (like
Fajr salat) on Friday after Jumu-ah prayers and after the salam go into Sajdah
and recite surah al Muzzammil (chapter 73) 21 times. Inshallah very soon she
will be married to a suitable man.
It is written in Biharul Anwar to write the following portion
of verse 132 of at Ta Ha on a paper with the solution of musk, saffron and rose
water and bind it as a Ta'wid on the right arm, if a man desires to be married
soon. Bind another Ta'wid like above on the right arm of the man or woman who is
negotiating the proposal of marriage.
NAH'NU NARZUQUK WAL A'AQIBATU LITTAQWAA
It is written in Kanzul Maknun to write the following du-a'a on
a paper like a Ta'wid and bind it on the right arm of the grown up girl who is
not receiving any offer of marriage. Inshallah, soon she will be married.
As there is ismi a'z'am in this du-a'a, it should be removed
during menses.
YAA NOORA KULLI SHAY-IN WA HUDAAHU ANTALLAD'EE FALAQAZ'
Z'ULUMAATI BINOORUHOO
According to Imam Jafar bin Muhammad as Sadiq, it is written in
Biharul Anwar, whoever desires to marry should recite the following du-a'a
before making a formal request for marriage.
ALLAAHUMMA INNEE UREEDU AN ANTAZAWWAJA FAQADDIR LEE MINAN
NISAA-IA'-FIHUNNA FARJAN WA AH'FAZ'IHUNNA LEE FEE NAFSIHAA WA AWSA-I'HUNNA LEE
RIZQAN WA A'-Z'AMIHUNNA LEE BARAKATAN FEE NAFSIHAA WA MAALEE FAQADDIR LEE MINHAA
WALADAN T'AYYIBAN TAJ-A'LUHOO KHALAFAN S'AALIH'AN FEE H'AYYAATEE WA BA'-DA
MAWTEE
It is written in Biharul Anwar that if unmanageable impediments
are obstructing your marriage write the following verses (Ta Ha: 131, 132) with
saffron and keep it on the body. Inshallah all hindrances will disappear.
WA LAA TAMUDDANNA A'YNAYKA ILAA MAA MATTA'NAA BIHEE AZWAJAM
MINHUM ZAHRATAL H'AYAATID DUNYAA LINAFTINAHUM FEEH WA RIZQU RABBIKA KHAYRUW WA
ABQAA
WA-MUR AHLAKA BIS-S'ALAATI WAS'T ABIR A'LAYHAA LAA NAS-ALUKA
RIZQAA NAH'NU NARZUQUK WAL A'AQIBATU LITTAQWAA.
It is written in Biharul Anwar that Imam Muhammad bin Ali al
Baqir said :
"After Nikah (marriage) when the bride and bridegroom come into
their house, both should pray a two rakat salat. Then they should say salawat
and all those who have come with them should also say salawat and amin. Then the
bridegroom should recite the following du-a'a
ALLAAHUMMAR-ZUQNEE ULFATAHAA WA WUDDAHAA WA RIZ'AAHAA
WAR-Z'INEE BIHAA WAJMA'BAYNANAA BI-AH'SANIJ - TIMAA-I'NAA AYSARI-TILAAFIN
FA-INNAKA TUH'IBBUL H'ALAALA WA TUKRIHUL H'ARAAMA