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3. Kissing a Woman

Rule 226:

It is not permissible for a
pilgrim, in a state of ihram , to kiss his wife with passion. If he does so and
as a result ejaculates, he is liable to a penalty of a camel. If he did not
ejaculate, a penalty of a sheep will do. If the kissing was without passion, the
same kaffarah (penalty) shall be due, as a matter of precaution.

Rule 227:

If a person, who is not in a
state of ihram, kisses his wife, who is in state of ihram, he must, as a matter
of precaution, pay a penalty of a sheep.

4. Touching a Woman

Rule 228:

It is not permissible for a
pilgrim, in ihram, to touch, carry, or cuddle his wife with passion. If he does
so, whether he ejaculates or not, he becomes liable to a penalty of a sheep.
However, if he touches, carries or cuddles her without passion, no penalty is
incurred.

5. Looking at and Playing with a Woman

Rule 229:

It is not permissible for a
person, in the state of ihram to embark on foreplay with his wife.If he does so
and ejaculates, he is liable to a penalty of a camel. However if he is unable to
pay this penalty, he is liable for a sheep.He should avoid looking at her with
desire, if this eventually leads to ejaculation.That said, it is advisable not
to embark on this road whether or not looking at her resulted in ejaculation, as
a matter of ihtiyat.

If he looks at her with passion and ejaculates, he is
liable to a penalty of a camel, as a matter of precaution. If he looks at her
with passion but does not ejaculate, or the looking is without desire, yet it is
followed by ejaculation, no penalty shall be incurred.

Rule 230:

If a pilgrim, in ihram,
unlawfully looks at a lady who is a stranger to him and ejaculates, he is liable
to a penalty of a camel, if he is well off.If he is of an average means, a
cow.If he is poor, the penalty is, evidently,a sheep.If there is no ejaculation,
no penalty is incurred.

Rule 231:

It is permissible for a
pilgrim, in ihram, to enjoy the company of his wife, such as talking to her.
However, categorically abandoning such a thing is recommended, as a matter of
precaution.

6. Masturbation

Rule 232:

If a pilgrim in a state of
ihram masturbates, the rule of sexual intercourse applies to him. If this
happens before the stay at Muzdalifah, his Hajj is invalidated; it is obligatory
on him to complete the ceremonies and repeat the pilgrimage in the following
year.

If this act occurs in Umrat-ul-Mufradah before completing sa'y, his
Umrah is invalidated and he is obliged to complete and repeat it as stated
above. The penalty for it is the same as that for sexual intercourse. If,
however, there is ejaculation without masturbation, by, for example, looking
only or imagining, the penalty is still operative but Hajj or Umrah is not
invalidated. Yet, as a matter of caution, it must be repeated.